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I came to personally know and serve the Lord as a child while still in grade school. But as an adult, even though I was a strong Christian, and a leader in my church, a combination of people’s actions and hard circumstances of life caused my Faith, trust, and belief in God to be rocked to the core. I felt betrayed by God and those who claimed the name, “Christian.” Later I came to realize I had arrived at life-changing crossroad. I was broken physically, emotionally and spiritually, and couldn’t even function enough to care for my family. I experienced what it meant to be a, “basket case”.
I knew instinctively i could not continue going forward on the path I was on. So I was confronted with a critical choice: do I turn one way and grudgingly recommit myself to follow Christ in spite of feeling betrayed by Him? Or do I turn in the opposite direction, calling it quits on God and the Church put Christ behind me and just live life where it takes me?
Thankfully to make the choice I found myself confronted with some critical basic questions: “Did I still believe God exists?” I dug deep to be honest with myself before realizing the answer was a solid, “Yes.” Then I sensed the important question, “Do you believe God can lie?” Again I dug deep to answer the question and soon realized I truly did believe He either could not or would not, lie.
With that answer I instinctively seemed to know I needed to go back to “Square One” in my Christian faith. I desperately needed to discover WHO God REALLY is, what HE has promised and shown us about the Christian life… not what I had mistakenly grown to believe, expect or imagine them to be.
I was very angry with God for I felt he had deeply violated my trust. I was in turmoil. I no longer wanted to put my faith and trust in a God I could no longer trust, yet I also knew the alternative life if I did not, and most definitely didn’t want that either! I basically cried, “Uncle” with God, and literally through gritted teeth told Him, “OK. I will serve you… but only because you’re bigger than I am!” God saw my heart. He knew I wasn’t being disrespectful… I was being brutally honest with myself AND Him. And that was enough for our Father, for according to His own Word, “the fear of God is the beginning of wisdom.” I had just taken my first baby step on a long road to spiritual healing.
Later while listening to Dr. Dobson on one of his radio broadcasts, he described the emotional trauma a person often experiences when they’ve been sexually violated, how they will often (wrongly or rightfully) direct their anger toward one they believe could have stopped or prevented the attack, but didn’t. They would then have to confront those feelings of betrayal and distrust if they were to fully recover from the assault. His words struck like a flash of light. It was exactly how I had been feeing toward God. I had been directing my anger toward God for I had trusted Him to always protect me, but felt He had not, yet could have.
It was then that my many years journey to healing and restoration began. But not to what I once was. God was regrowing me into something much better!
“The fear of God is the beginning of wisdom,” became very real to me that memorable day. And I marvel at where this “new life in Christ” continues to take me.
Yes. I agree. Life (and people) can truly be the pits at times! And we may not always understand God’s way of doing things, or why he allows certain things to happen to us in this world, but we can truly trust and know that through the ever-changing challenges and blessings of life, HE never changes. He remains forever the same: “God is good… all the time.” And the opposite is true too, that “All the time… God is good.”
I now anchor my life on it.